You were not conceived, despite the spent seed, 
the rich bed of blood. You did not laden my life 
with bittersweet fruit: memorable sayings,  
illness, brilliance, a body made of mine, either 
like or unlike. Your gender is neutral, or, 
it is your own, your selfness.  You love who 
and what you love with fire and ice. You are  
a pearl of the world, gem of grit and spit,  
that gives you a shell and a tongue both salty 
and sweet. We speak once a day, week,  
month, year, decade. I did you right  
and wrong from my own pocket of wounds and stars.  
Fleet as the scent of mock orange on the wind, 
you are a blossom of loss, phantom limb.