I now pronounce you your own. Give you back 
your names, put down those titles: Mother, Father,  
Wife, Husband. I pronounce you whole. Better 
apart, but still better for once having found each  
other. I pronounce you human. Both the stove 
and the hand that touches it, if only to learn  
what burns. I pronounce your every scar 
well earned, roads on a worn map you used  
to find your way home. I pronounce you home 
and road. Minute and hour hand, together  
briefly, moving forward. I pronounce you 
the golden leaf and its inevitable  
fall. I pronounce you deserving of space 
to change, the hydrangea moved  
from its pot into earth, roots stretched out 
like an unclenched fist. I pronounce you worthy  
of looking back with gentle eyes. Both the one 
who held me in the backseat, my bleeding  
knee in your lap, and the steady hand that drove 
us to the hospital. I pronounce you both free  
and forever bound, your four children stitched 
between you like the binding of a book sewed  
together by hand. I pronounce you the pages 
and the cover that encases them.  
Both the story I know 
and the one you wrote without me.